Here’s one bit of dating advice for men that actually works: learn to cook and be good at it. It impresses 90% of women. Mention this in your dating profile too. Don’t be shy.
If you get a first or second date (whenever she feels comfortable coming to your place), cook for her. It doesn’t have to be an elaborate meal, but it’s gotta be good. Most women love this and it’s a staple of romantic comedies because it fucking works.