Why is it okay for older gay men to date much younger guys, but not in heterosexual relationships?

Because increasingly women are seen — even by other women — as fragile children with no agency and as de facto minors until they are 35-40, while even boys 13-15 are seen by many adults as full-grown men.

Yes, it’s a huge double standard. And yes, it’s terrible. Anyway, compatibility is far more important than any age gap ever will no matter what PMC libs like to believe. People should do what they want as long as everyone is above the age of majority. Also, much of this disparity comes down to the fact that society sees the average man as completely disposable and the average woman as inherently valuable. There are other things around that but that is the fundamental underpinning.