I think this is generally true:
Many women like to womansplain about what men “really feel” or how they should feel in a given situation1. They see all emotions and relationships as their territory by right, and just as many men “mansplain” when a woman talks about cars or reciprocal saws, a whole lot of women do that when men talk about anything related to feelings or relationship dynamics. These women are perfectly happy to gaslight you about your own reactions, emotions and preferences. They will even attempt to tell others how you “truly feel” about something that in no way matches what you’ve said or how you actually feel.
And yes, it absolutely is just as toxic when women womansplain as when a man does his version of the same.