Ha. Exactly. Men call you “gay” while women hit you with both barrels and call you “gay” and “creepy” if you don’t perfectly embody their notions of masculinity. It really sucks honestly.
Ha. Exactly. Men call you “gay” while women hit you with both barrels and call you “gay” and “creepy” if you don’t perfectly embody their notions of masculinity. It really sucks honestly.
Anything wrong with being called gay? What about when a gay man is called straight? Is that also a slur? /semi-s
Heh. Nothing wrong with being called gay to me, but the ones who fling that definitely intend it as an insult.
I do think it can be a slur when a gay man gets this (which I’ve heard a few times): “But you act so straight!” I’d take that as something like a slur for sure. Or at least as denigration.