It’s normal and reasonable for a man to care what you look like, and prefer you to keep the look you had when he met you (outside of inevitable things re: aging) https://t.co/hegN9jl0h2 pic.twitter.com/hl9RR882qZ
— Cartoons Hate Her! (@CartoonsHateHer) March 22, 2025
Agreed. I think the same is true the other way too (or for same-sex couples). This tendency to let one’s self go is worse in women (or at least I notice more), but women who are like, “He should still love me even though I now weigh 500 pounds and am one with my couch!” seem to me to be fucking insane. Why would you think that?
And then men are castigated for caring that the woman who was 120 pounds and fit when they got together now can’t be distinguished from the herd if she gets too close to a group of bovines.
No thanks.